Kathmandu. Airports were once known as ‘meeting places’. Where people would meet, say goodbye, or wait for someone’s return. But now airports have become testing grounds for relations.
Nowadays it’s not just about love or honeymoon; Couples are now talking about ‘airport divorce’. This may sound strange, but this trend is currently being discussed on social media.
In fact, it’s not what you think. The term “airport divorce” was first coined by British author Hugh Oliver. He explained that it is not a real divorce but a strange way to save the relationship.
Hugh and his fiancé would fight every time before the flight. One wanted to board first and the other wanted to enjoy duty-free. These small issues filled their journey with stress.
They then decided to part ways for a while after security, spend time together, and then meet again on the plane. They called the experience an “airport divorce.” That is, creating a little distance and strengthening the relationship.
As soon as Hugh wrote about her feelings in The Times, the story spread to newspapers and social media, and couples around the world began to embrace it. Some tried it as a joke. While others described it as a formula to reduce the stress of the relationship.
So much so that American TV host Kelly Ripa jokingly told her husband, “Maybe we should try an airport divorce too.” Then the trend went viral.
Travel stress is a real problem. Many studies show that air travel increases anxiety and stress. This is due to long lines, security checks, baggage hassles and delays. Quarrels between couples are common. Experts say that if couples give themselves some personal space while traveling, then the relationship can improve. ’
Hue’s idea works on this principle. Because a short separation can often prevent a relationship from breaking up. However, this practice is not for everyone. If you are with children or going on a long trip, this ‘airport divorce’ may not work. It definitely reminds us that a little distance is needed in a relationship. Love is not only about always being together, but sometimes being alone can also save a relationship.
